by Susan James
There are many ways we innocently stop ourselves from having what
we want; and there are two groups of us.
The first group is unaware, therefore not interested in things of this
nature.
The second group is you and me. We’ve become aware that there may
be some short cuts to expand us beyond the human nature of events
guided by cause and effect.
This essay is for the second group. The first group wont see it, at least
not on this day.
Here’s a true story to help illustrate our innocence in not getting what
we want:
A friend of mine who is in the first group has been back and forth for
years on wanting to start her own business using the gifts given to her
in this life experience. The signs have been everywhere pointing her
‘that way’. Fear and doubt have stopped her.
Recently, she told me of yet another opportunity she was presented
with, again pointing her ‘this way’.
Enter Me: Entrpreneurialism and Business excite me so much I want
to spit. I have to be mindful of not going into seminar mode when
these things show up. But what I did do, was I dropped what I was
doing in that moment, and rushed to the bookstore and found the
perfect book for my friend, relating to the type of business which was
pointing her ‘this way’.
I dropped the book off at her home, placing it in her garage where I
knew she would see it when she got home.
She called to thank me for the book, and then she said: “First things
and other things first, I have this and that.” In other words, in that
moment, she said NO energetically.. That is vibrationally what she
was giving off.
(Its not what we think we are saying with our words, it IS what we are
living in and giving off vibrationally.)
I then said to her, as I have a strategy for ending things on a vib-
rational high note, no matter the issue….I said: “I didn’t get you the
book, so that you would go and do this business now. I gave you the
book to support you in your life and to let you know I was supporting
any newness you might be entertaining.”
This is NOT about manners and lack of appreciation. It is NOT about
being right.
Language is a primary tool given to humanity for its expansion.
Thought and Spoken Language.
When we Say NO….we stop the upward spiral of light energy that
would peacefully expand us from some fear and doubt without us
having to ‘do’ anything about it. When we say NO, we stop the circle
of giving and receiving energy that propels our lives.
Whether or not my friend chooses to do this business now, later, or
never, is immaterial to what she has done with first her thought
language energy and then her spoken language energy.
Vibrationally the ‘feeling’ sense of NO….stops everything. She
became closed off energetically, in that moment.
Even if she chooses not do this business, how could she have handled
this differently, so that she could have expanded vibrationally and
propelled herself forward in some way?
Instead of No, she could have said something very simple: ‘Gee,
thanks for the book, I bet there’s lots of good stuff in here.’
Which feels better to you?
“First things first, I have other things to get done first.”
Or
“Gee, thanks for the book, I bet there’s lots of good stuff in here.”
There is an Art, Skill and Strategy to expanding our lives
Vibrationally so that we keep bringing ourselves new choices that
lead to new experiences. It begins with how we think and express
ourselves in thought and spoken words.
We have to strategize what we are going to say before we say it. Even
if it something that we are presented with that we know is not a fit for
us. We still have to find a way to keep the Vibrational content good
for both the giver and the receiver, in spite of the overall choice in the
matter.
Success begins and ends with this strategy, innocent or not.
What this means is this:
In regard to choices…Desires that we yearn for, are not an accident.
They are heaven sent. We have free will to an extent. Meaning we can
make many choices based on the vibration we are living in. Our
vibrational level may have 3 choices; red, blue and green.
But what if, through desire, we become aware of many other colors
which are outside our choice level of vibration? What can we do to
bring ourselves more choices and new experiences?
Expand Beyond The Innocence of Not Getting What We Want.
Susan James (Copyright) http://www.susanjames.org
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